In this clip, Michael Franzese discussed what the parameters of a "sit-down" are as opposed to a normal meeting within the context of life in organized crime. He explained what he meant in his book by going to a sit-down with "two barrels loaded," and the mental war of attrition a sit-down essentially becomes.
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